For every person, there exists a set of limits- an uncrossable line after which the offense becomes unforgivable, the annoyance too great, and the off-putting too off-put. Even fictional people have these, and it's to your benefit to know where they are. In this case, let's consider interpersonal dealbreakers.
What are your character's dealbreakers when it comes to dating/romantic relationships? How do these notions affect their pursuits, courtships, or relationship maintanance? How do these differ from their romantic ideals?
What are your character's limitations when it comes to business partnerships or coworkers? What would make them march up to HR? Conversely, what would they love to see in a coworker?
What would cause your character to end a friendship (or stop pursuing one)? How does this differ from the above dealbreakers? What makes a friendship fast for them?
What actions would automatically estrange your character from a family member? Permanently or temporarily? Stony, silent Thanksgiving estrangement or blocked phone number estrangement?
While considering these negatives, be sure to examine the positives as well. How would a friendship be instantly sealed? What could bring an estranged family member back into your character's life? Often, you'll be surprised that the dealbreakers and the dealmakers are actually not diametric opposites.
Extra challenge: find one of these relationships and put your character in the thick of it. For added frustration, add one or more of the remaining relationships. The best thing you can do in terms of a story is place your character into a situation they find deeply uncomfortable, and with these answers in hand, you will have a strong concept of why.
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